Shame, the stuck time machine, keeps me in the mistake state, at the scene of the crime. It makes everything I do to mend the mistake into damage control -- damage to me.
How about this for an anti-shame reminder? "How other people feel is important, but how other people feel about me is not important."
But what if I really get behind that and push, and it turns out to be a mistake?
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